Thursday, December 31, 2015

2015.



Blessed. What a year it has been. Thank you God for the health that you provided to our families and to us, thank you for the job opportunities, thank you for the roof over our heads, and for the love that we feel within both our families. 

2015, you were truly full of blessings and adventures. Kevin and I are ready to take on 2016 hand in hand, all the while thinking of those whom we love in mind. 

The pictures shown above are my favorite memories of 2015; the joy in my life that keep me going even during my hardest days. I love you all and Happy New Year!

With love, Alessandra

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

The Thankful List

Sharing what you're grateful for should be a requirement. I try to share mine as much as I can and not just around the holidays because you're thankful for those special people and things all year. Take a moment to sit down and think what brings you overwhelming amounts of happiness; it's good for your health and it's good for those around you to know how appreciative you are of them.

I'm tremendously thankful for:

1. Kevin - it's a blessing to wake up with him by my side everyday. I'm eternally grateful for you, amor. The day I met you, it felt like my heart grew three sizes bigger and it continues to grow everyday.

2. My family - my parents who I owe my life to. My mom who I can call at 7am or 11pm to ask some ridiculous questions about "adulting" and not once has she laughed or judged me for it. My dad who keeps working so hard to provide for the family and always with a smile on his face. On my toughest days, I think of you and it gives me strength. My younger brother and sister, you are the reason why I may look 20 instead of 26. The other day at work, a parent mistaken me for a high school student and that's all thanks to you two, you two keep me hip, trendy, and cool (or so I think I am, don't tell me if I'm not!). 

3. Kevin's family. For example, his grandfather from his dad's side makes me feel like I'm one of his own and I've felt that since the first day I met him. His love reminds me of the love I had with my grandfather from my mom's side. Even though, most of mine are in heaven, I'm so grateful for my husband's grandparents. They fill the empty space in my heart with their love. 

4. Friends - like that one quote says, "friends are the family you choose" and I am the luckiest woman on Earth with the special people who share their friendship with me. Some with whom I've shared memories with since pre-school, the ones who came into my life during my teenage years, and the ones who I've created memories with in the last two years. I'm so grateful for you, thank you for sticking with me, and even saying these words isn't enough to show just how appreciative I am of you.

5. Our fur babies - coming home after a long day at work and feeling their unconditional love is one of the best feelings I've experienced. A dog's love and a cat's love (even though both are extremely opposite on how they show their love) is truly one of a kind. 

6. The health of our loved ones and mine as well. The energy and appetite I have for life everyday. 

7. My job - I don't know many people who love their job and that's sad. You spend a huge chunk of your day doing whatever you call your career, it's a key factor of what can make you happy and healthy. My students may stress me out some days, especially when they come to see me a couple of days before grades are due and ask me what ELSE can they do to improve their grades. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!? That's what I want to say to them, instead I take a deep breath, help them collect any missing work and assist them on getting that work done or helping them in finally understanding a concept that they didn't get a couple weeks ago. Then, I have those special moments when a student comes barging in my class with their grade report in hand saying, "Mrs.Morris, I got a  ___ (typically A's and B's) on so and so!" with a grin from ear to ear. These moments make it all worth it and don't get me started with the people I work with. They are the best humans on this planet. Period. 

8. My faith in Him. Without him, I wouldn't have anything to be grateful for. God is so good to me. 

Now, it's your turn. Share what you're grateful for or better yet, tell them in person or by phone, it doesn't matter as long as you do it. It's an incredible feeling... I hope you all have a Happy Thanksgiving!

With love, 
Alessandra

Thursday, October 22, 2015

I can't wait.

I can't wait...

For the weather to get colder.
To wipe the dust off my boots and wear my warm fuzzy socks.
To move in to our house in Turlock!
To walk our dogs around CSU Stanislaus.
For the stare downs to begin when Dexter meets the outdoor kitties that belong to our neighbors.
To start decorating for Christmas.
For Kevin and I to wear our Halloween costumes. It's a good one!
To enjoy yet another concert with my forever concert date, my baby sister. 
To feel the icy wind and then sinking my face to one of my favorite scarves. 
To feel the warmth from my hot chocolate heating my hands. 
To snuggle up with Kevin and watch his favorite Christmas movie, National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation while eating very buttery popcorn.
For Kevin to snuggle up with me and watch ALL my favorite Christmas movies. I have a list. It's going to be a month long thing.
To see the look on my student's faces when they see they got a B or A on any future tests.
For Star Wars: The Force Awakens!!!
For Inside Out to be released on DVD. 
For future family gatherings and/or game nights with friends. 
For the possible trips that Kevin and I are planning on to reunite with close family and friends. 
For next week. It's Red Ribbon Week at my school, everyday is theme day which means we can wear jeans every single day!
To chaperone the Halloween Dance and for my 6th graders to come up to me and say, "Mrs.Morris, do you like my costume!?"
For my 8th graders to act like they don't know me at the dance. Wait, ehh I'm not really excited for that part. Darn puberty. 
For the last day of school before Christmas break. One of the best feelings ever for a teacher and to find Christmas goodies in my teacher box :)
For those random Los Banos visits to visit the fam bam. There's just something about that town that I love and I'm not ashamed to say it. 
To wear layers of clothing, scarves, and beanies. 
To order my prescription glasses. It's been two years, its time for new frames. 
To change our summer comforter to our winter comforter. Kevin hates it. It's not my fault that he's warm blooded. 
For future adventures with my husband. I think he needs to visit Peru and soon.
To make our house a home.
For God to bless us with the greatest gift He can give...to be able and be lucky enough to create life. For anyone who knows me knows that I cannot wait to become a mother. God only knows when that will be.

Ending my day with happy thoughts. I hope you are too. 

Good night world.

With love, 
Ale

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Hello October!


Hello!

Can I just say real quick...Hello October! I am so happy you are finally here! The start of my favorite time of the year!


"I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers." - Anne of Green Gables:

(P.S. Stole this pretty pic from Pinterest)

Happy Thursday!

With love, Ale

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Inside Out

I went to go see this movie when it first came out over the summer and yet, I'm still thinking about core memories and how they connect to our emotions. I especially loved the message behind the movie. I believe it was that we should embrace sadness. Sadness leads to personal growth and eventually joy with others and being happy with yourself again. You need to allow yourself to feel sad in order to move forward. This is something that I face with my husband. He becomes really uncomfortable when I start expressing sadness, I could tell from his body language. I have felt extreme happiness with him and he has seen me at my happiest, but he has also seen me at my worst like when my grandparents passed away. I lost both of them in two, quick years. I felt like I had to show him or at least make him understand that sadness is okay, that I had to go through pain to move forward and all he needed to do is hold me. He did just that and he was essential to my grieving process. With his support and with the unity of the Holy Spirit in my family, I was finally able to let go and feel joy again. Typing this and saying it out loud at this moment is a sign of relief to me, feels peaceful. 

I think I was all over the place with this blog. Maybe you got a better sense of how my mind works (it's crazy flowing with thoughts and ideas at night), how I'm feeling, and know me...Ale. Someone at work recently told me, "you're always so happy" and since then, it hasn't left my mind. The truth is I'm not always happy and that's okay. I know I have the right people surrounding me with their support and enormous love. That's all I ever need.

Goodnight. 

With love, Alessandra

Got this picture off of Google :) can't wait to add this movie to my collection. November 3rd, come quick! 

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

The past month

I've noticed that I'm not great at keeping up with this whole blog thing. I'll try harder, but man do I have a lot to update on. I believe it's almost been a month since my last post, and it has been crazy fun. 

I've started the 2015-2016 school year and my 6th grade bunch are going to take every last ounce of energy I have. The good news is my older students (7th and 8th) are getting the hang of school and are needing less attention from me. This is great, it is every special education teaher's dream. Once they are able to do their academics independently, I slowly get out of the picture. It does make me sad because I don't see them as often, but my heart is bursting with joy whenever this happens. We are on the second week of school but I can already tell it's going to be one hectic, crazy busy year. 

Work hard, play hard. Never used that expression before and I believe it'll be the only time you'll hear it from me. Ha! Anyway, I thought that phrase went perfectly with this past month. There's been concerts, reunions with friends and family, a soccer game to the best team there is, and an anniversary that was celebrated!

My mom and I are huge fans of Dancing with the Stars and we were able to go to their summer tour! It was incredible, makes me wish I could have become a professional dancer. Maybe in my next life. 
Here's to another 10 more years!!! We are forever fans! 
We got the chance to spend some quality time with family and friends that we don't get to see on a regular basis. We love you all. Let's try to see each other more than just once a year :)

The last weekend of July we were able to attend a FC Barcelona game at Levi's stadium. We lost, partly because they didn't have their top two players because they were on vacation (who needs vacation!?)  :( but the experience was amazing. You can walk down the street and high five a total stranger just because we're wearing the same jersey. What a fun day. Also, Kevin has now fully converted to be a soccer fanatic and most importantly a true FCBarca fan. I'm such a proud wife. That jersey looked so good on him ;)

I love concerts! Did you know that about me? Now that my sister is old enough, she has become my concert buddy. I love that we (almost) have the same taste in music. I'm trying to have her like country, she'll like it eventually (I have a concert in mind). Anywho, we met Fifth Harmony about 4 days ago! This was our very first meet and greet with an artist(s). The girls of Fifth Harmony are incredibly nice and so in love with their fans. They can make a room full of people dance and sing for 2.5 hours straight. This concert is by far one of the best ones I've been to. I'm so happy I got to experience it with my little one. I think she was about to faint at one point. We love you 5H!
 
August is one of my favorite months mainly because Kevin and I have two very special dates to celebrate. August 2nd and August 19th (coming up!). Like I mentioned before on past blogs, Kevin and I became legally married on August 19th, 2011 and three years later, we had our wedding and got married through Church (August 2nd). Kevin suprised me and we left to Napa Valley for the weekend and drank wine and relaxed. Happiness is not the word that I feel when I'm with my husband. There hasn't been a word invented to express how I feel. He is my world and I am so blessed to have found him. I love you Kevin. 
You know the whole freeze your wedding cake and eat it on your first anniversary tradition. Yup, we did that and it wasn't as bad as you think. The actual cake part was still good, the frosting not so much. We took our pictures, ate a slice, and said good-bye to our cake. 
It's been a busy month and I've loved every minute of it. I can't believe we are more than halfway done with the year. My favorite season is coming up! Can't wait!

Good night to you all❤️ 

With love,
Alessandra

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

What I will miss about summer vacation and what to look forward to!

One of the benefits about being a teacher is summer vacation, I mean, hands down. I really got to relax and enjoy my summer this time around. My very first year as an educator, my summer was full of new teacher training's and last summer, it was occupied by conferences and training's that I chose to go to. Before summer vacation even started, I looked for opportunities and conferences that I can attend, but it was too late to enroll or I already went to that same training last year. That being said, I had the entire summer to recharge and just do nothing, it was fantastic. Today is my last day of summer vacation, due to my department retreat being tomorrow and next week is filled with the good type of craziness at my school site. This is all making me feel a teeny bit anxious, nervous and excited to start the 2015-2016 school year, but mostly, it's making me a little sad because I will miss my summer days. I made up a list of the things I will miss the most:

1. SLEEPING IN, one of my favorite things to do.
2. Nights of watching my endless list of movies and TV shows.
3. Driving to Los Banos to spend time with my family because I can and my schedule allows it.
4. Spending time with my fur babies at any time of the day.
5. Taking an afternoon nap with Dexter by my side, I really practiced the term "cat nap" this summer.
6. Visiting my husband during his lunch hour because I can.
7. Enjoying reading books that I selected.
8. Traveling and having new adventures.
9. Running errands and completing them before 12pm.
10. Starting a board game with Kevin at 11 o'clock at night on a weekday because I don't have to wake up early the next morning (although this didn't happen often because Kevin started his career at the beginning of the summer! Yay!).
11. Having girl's night on a weekday (it worked out since we all happen to be educators; I'm talking about you, Jasmine and Kelly).
12. Time. Just having the time to do and enjoy life.

Now, here's another list I compiled of things that I am looking forward to:
1. Seeing my student’s faces, both old and new.
2. Working with the teachers I work with, did I tell you how awesome they all are.
3. Waking up early and smelling the aroma of coffee around the house.
4. Going back to a busy and hectic routine.
5. Celebrating all of the holidays.
6. My favorite season of all, fall.
7. All my favorite shows are on (Once Upon a Time, eeeek! Can September come any quicker?).
8. Anything else Life has happening for us.

Summer of 2015, you were great to my family and I. I'll see you next year! I hope your summers were filled with fun adventures or plain nothingness could be just as great too. I love them both. Stay cool!
I got this picture off of Google; I thought it went perfectly with how I am feeling at the moment. I am so ready to take on this new academic year.

With love,
Alessandra

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Happy Birthday America!

What is better than spending the Fourth of July at home with family while eating delicious food and ending the night with some laughs and setting off some fireworks (the legal kinds, of course). That is our kind of celebration, the low-key kind. 

Kevin and I...okay, I enjoy getting us matching outfits. The kind that really show our patriotism. Can you imagine us with children?! They will be all decked out in red, white, and blue. Aww man, the fun I will have. We spent our Fourth with family. We couldn't see the fireworks from our front yard, so my mom decided to play quick mind games such as who can name the most animals or movies, it was the English and Spanish version. Great practice for Kevin and surprisingly, he won the who can name the most movies. We also learned that my dad is really good at naming animals that don't exist. Oh, my dad, he's hilarious. Thank you Mom, Dad, Tia Pilar, cousin Natalia, and my siblings, for celebrating with us. Happy 238th Birthday America, stay beautiful! 

It is impossible to have a picture with all three of them looking at the camera.
My handsome man.
I was imagining myself in Hogwarts and dancing. 
I hope you all had a safe and wonderful Fourth of July. 

With love, 
Alessandra

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Peru!

For the past twenty years, I have been dreaming about visiting my home country, Peru, and it finally happened. Three weeks ago on Tuesday, my mother, brother, and I were boarding a plane, feeling anxious and nervous for several reasons. It was my brother’s first time on a plane, and this would be my mother’s and my first time back since we left in 1992. Side note: for anyone who is planning a trip to South America, I highly recommend LAN Airlines. They provide excellent customer service and the 10 hour flight felt like 5 hours, so coming from a very antsy woman…THANK YOU.
I was fortunate enough to visit a few places in Peru, and for the most part, my home country is full of culture and history. You might think I sound crazy, but there was a moment where I felt as if I was connected with past ancestors and I felt my spirit energized in a different way, it was a surreal experience.
We were in Lima, Peru for the most part. We visited family that my mom and I haven’t seen since I was two years old and it was my brother’s first time meeting them. My mom hasn’t seen her brother in 23 years, that’s ridiculous. I can’t handle two weeks without seeing my siblings; that just goes to show that my mom is one strong woman. We stayed with my Uncle, Aunt, and Cousin at a district called Magdalena, it’s where my grandparents used to live. My grandparent’s aroma still lingers around their apartment and sometimes I would hear my Papapa’s voice when it was really my Uncle speaking. It was a bittersweet combination of sadness with happiness. Like I was saying, we visited several family members, ate a TON of delicious food along the way, and got in the car for mini road trips to visit more of mi lindo Perú.  
Costa Verde. My Uncle lives minutes away from the beautiful coast.
The very first treat we bought while still in the car and on our way to my Uncle's place. 
My mom said that she used to buy these treats all the time as a little girl.


My brother and I stayed a day in Lima and then we were off to a separate adventure and boarded a plane to spend a couple of days in Cusco. With the help of my uncle, we were able to get connected with a travel agent and she made sure our stay in Cusco was nothing but the best. Thank you so much Kathya. You will be seeing more of me in the future :) Cusco was beautiful and our three days there were jam packed with things to do and places to visit. The first place we toured was the city of Cusco and Coricancha, the Incas' temple of the sun. Before the Spanish conquistadors came, this was a place where the Incans' worshiped their sun god, Inti. With the arrival of Pizarro, they destroyed their temple and built a Spanish cathedral above their grounds. I found the history of this temple and now cathedral devastating, but I was intrigued to hear about my history while standing on the actual grounds of where it all happened.
Our next stop was the city of Saqsaywaman where we made friends with a llama! On the next day, we visited several little places such as Tambomachay, Pisaq, Ollantaytambo, and Chinchero. All of these destinations were incredible and full of culture. The ladies were wearing their traditional wool top and skirt walking alongside them was a llama, also decked out in their own hand-made scarf made out of their own hair. We just had to take a picture with them. 
 
While we stayed in Cusco, our relatives who happen to live in San Jose happened to be in Cusco as well. What are the chances!? Naturally, we met up and they invited us to a really nice restaurant for some delicious dinner. Unfortunately, my little brother wasn't feeling too good. The altitude can get a lot of tourists sick. I'm surprised I was well during our entire stay, the Incan blood in me must be stronger (or so my Dad says). Thank you to my family, the Fisher family, for the delicious dinner. We sure made some great memories that night, huh Eduardo Jr? Notice the alcoholic beverage in his hand? Yea, it is legal to drink in Peru once you hit the age of 18.Let's just say, he was having a GREAT night ;) 
Last, but certainly not least we visited Machu Picchu and remember when I said earlier that I felt a spiritual connection? This is the place where I felt it the most. Stunning. I can't justify it with words on just how incredible it was. My brother and I were left speechless and in awe. I wanted to sit on a rock and just stare at it for hours at a time, but we needed to catch our train and my brother and I were starting to get hungry (you can't eat inside the grounds of Machu Picchu and there aren't any public restrooms, so you suck tiny bladder of mine). I feel so blessed to have been able to experience and finally visit one of the seven wonders of our world with my little bro. I hope I can experience it with my husband next, God willing in the next five years or so. Thank you Machu Picchu, stay magical :)
It was such a beautiful and HOT day in Machu Picchu.
 I should have worn shorts, I missed a perfect opportunity for a nice leg tan.
My brother and I climbed to La Puerta del Sol or The Door of the Sun. The hike there was rough and it took us longer than a typical, healthy hiker, but it was damn well worth it. The view from the top...breathtaking.
These are our friends we met on our journey. They were visiting from London. We miss you Zainab and Miklos! P.S. Don't ask anyone who lives in London about the Royal family. Apparently, they aren't their biggest fans. 
No words. 
I'll be back, I promise.
Once we returned to Lima, our days felt like they were slipping from our fingers. We spent the rest of the week visiting family and going to a couple of places in Peru while experiencing some adrenaline filled adventures. We were also fortunate enough to celebrate my Aunt Ana's birthday, my cousin Rodrigo's 22nd birthday, and celebrate Father's Day with my Uncle Mario. It was a week full of celebrations. First, we started our return from Cusco with a night full of dancing and laughter. I was able to experience my first peña in Peru. What's a peña, you ask? It is an event full of music, food, drinks, and all the while, popular folklore such as dancing and singing are performing right in front of you! We were table USA and of course, they asked me and my brother to dance in front of everyone! So much fun!
Again, totally legal to drink in Peru at the age of 18. 
That being said, this is the "before" picture of the cousins.
The "during" picture.
The "after" picture. 
The one person I was most excited to see was this dude right here. When we were younger, we were inseparable. He was my dancing partner at every party and I was his shadow. My mom and my aunt Gloria took a lot of pictures of us when we were little. It never looked as if I annoyed him, he was always happy to be with me and so was I. Reuniting with him was one the best parts of this whole trip. Te quiero, Sebastian. It won't be another 23 years until we see each other again. 
Maca, Sebastian's wife and Katia, my other cousin, Rodrigo's girlfriend. Fantastic women. 
I am so happy that my cousins found their other half. 
Love you, Maca!

One place we visited was the Plaza de Armas which is located in Central Lima. We had pizza for lunch and it was the best I have ever had in my life. Later that evening, we went to visit family while we watched the Copa America game where Peru was playing against Brazil. Another side note: watching a soccer game in a South American country is whole other experience, much more intense, especially in a house full of Peruvians. We lost the game and we were pissed. 

My cousin Gaby and I decided to take the same picture we took 23 years ago. We didn't change a bit. Love you, Prima!
All the cousins in one picture.
With my great aunt Norma. 
Family Picture. 

One day we packed our bags and took a mini road trip to spend a couple of days in Ica at the Laguna de Huacachina and Paracas where unfortunately I got super sea sick on the boat we took to visit the islands there. In Ica, my mom, uncle, cousin, brother, and I experienced our very first adventure of dune buggying. I am still in shock that my mom decided to do it, she is not a fan of adrenaline. Needless to say, she was shouting "Get me off, aahahhhhhahah, you're going too fast" the whole time we were on the buggy. My brother and I were laughing the entire time. I don't even want to talk about Paracas. The place was beautiful, I just wish I hadn't gotten sea sick so I could have enjoyed it more. Darn you, motion sickness!
 
The after picture and thanking God for having my feet on the ground. I was feeling so sick :(

Our last weekend in Peru, we visited el Parque de Aguas (The Park of Water), it was a beautiful park full of gorgeous water fountains, we celebrated my cousin's Rodrigo's birthday, spent an afternoon where my Aunt Ana is from, called La Punta, and we ate a plate full of fried fish, called Jalea and of course, Ceviche (again, the best I have ever had). Another favorite location was visiting where my parent's got married at the Parroquia de Santa Maria de Magdalena, it was a gorgeous church. Afterwards, we visited an outdoor mall called Larcomar and a El Parque del Amor (The Park of Love), this is where I missed Kevin the most, there were couples everywhere. On our last day, we decided to stay at my Uncle's place and spend Father's Day indoors with family :) 
What's new. My little brother always irritating our mother. 
With the birthday boy.
La Punta
Best Ceviche Ever.
Peru, you treated us so well and our stay there went by too quickly. I am so happy I got to see family that I haven't seen in such a long time and I got to visit places that I only dreamed about for decades. I want to thank my family, especially my Uncle Mario and Tia Ana for letting us stay in their home, this trip wouldn't have been possible without you. I left a piece of my heart in Peru. It won't be long until we see each other again. 

With love,
Alessandra